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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing my partner for just over a year now and things are going really well. Our sex life is very good however on approx 7 to 8 occasions after sex when he has fallen asleep he starts to talk. He always says "I love you Julie" (his ex who he split up from 3 years ago and whom he was with for 3 years). At first i was very upset about this and beleived him when he says that he has no thoughts for her now and loves me very much. You can imagine what this does for my self esteem! I dont know what to do. He has had many sexual partners when he was younger and is very experienced. Is he playing me or is he being genuine. He does seem very uposet when i tell him what he has said although he doesnt say anything else in his sleep just this. I'm very confused and would appreciate your advice.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Sorry but if he has said this that many times I think he's doing it on purpose to upset you. I think you'd better ask him why.
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