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writes:ok so i like this guy and he made it pretty obvious that he likes me but im not sure if hes a good person to have as a boyfriend. Hes really nice to me but with his best friend, who i know really well, a lot of times hes a huge perv and can be kind of mean. He gets really mad easily lately too, like the smallest things will make him mad for the rest of the day. Also, he acts gay a lot because he thinks its funny, even though i know hes not gay. Hes had girlfriends before and broke up with some of them pretty bad. Hes really nice to me though and always compliments me and makes me feel good about myself and makes me laugh and stuff, and he makes fun of me sometimes but in a nicee way and he makes sure i know hes joking and i do the same thing to him so its not a big deal. I don't know if he would be a good person to go out with though, even though I like him a lot. Should I just go for it and see how it works out or would it just be setting myself up for disaster to go out w him.
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp!  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Hello :)
Well it sounds like he is a good friend to you and if he makes you happy then that is brillant :)
You siad his friend is a perv well it really shouldnt matter as the relotionship is just meant to be between you and him and no one else.
You said he acts gay does he do this as a joke? if he does you could simply say that it embaressed you abit and ask him to stop it im sure he would try if he loved you.
And as for the old girlfriends they were in the past aslong as they dont try and get involved in your reltionship then that should be fine :).
Why dont you sit down and write down all the good things about him then all the bad things see which list is longer and then it might give you abit more of an idea.
I think you should try and give it ago if he makes you happy and stuff then that is brillant !! forget about other people and the past ;) its just you and him now.
Hope this helps x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 March 2011):
This has disaster written all over it. Here's why:
Remember those other girls he went out with and hurt? Well, I bet he gave them loads of compliments, made them feel good and made them laugh too. And look at how that turned out. He ended up being mean and breaking up with them badly.
Unfortunately, he's a bit predictable. He'll start off nice to you, but will become meaner and meaner until you have a bad split and never speak again.
I would wait a while and find a guy who's more secure in himself, and less likely to hurt you.
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