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Drunken hookups are leading to unfulfilling sex

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Question - (7 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ive been sleeping with this guy (who's 21) for 2months now and it is almost always a drunken hook up and he has failed to stay hard throughout intercourse everytime. We always get halfway through sex before he goes soft. I asked him if it was me and he said defiantly not but im starting to worry im not doing it right? We try different positions and i managed to get his erection back with my mouth but he didnt cum. I really want to please him but feel like im failing. We always try again in the morning but the same thing happens again. Is there anything else i could try to keep him hard and make him orgasm?

Thankyou

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011):

Boozing is bad for sex, really, not just for erections, but even worse is it's effect on good relationships (notice I didn't say it was bad for all relationships, only bad for good ones).

Sounds like he has an alcohol problem, he may be drinking for a lot of reasons, but sex is definitely better if both parties are sober.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2011):

Stop him drinking. Booze is bad for erections, and that is no doubt causing his problem. It's not you at all.

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