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writes:i think i may have feelings for my close guy friend. i find that i can always tell him anything, or he can figure it out even before i open my mouth. he also tells me things that i know he doesn't share with anyone else, but that could just be him trusting me as a friend and nothing more. i also recently made out with another guy at a party, but the whole time i could not help but think about my friend. i have a bad pattern for falling for guys that i'm close to, and i don't think he shares the same feelings for me and i know he wants to settle down with the right girl. someone help! i really don't want to have these feelings for him Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 hi
why don't you want to fall for him? do you think it will not work out and then you will have lost his friendship? do you feel embarrassed in case he does not feel the same way? are you seeing this new situation based on your previous bad experiences of falling for friends? do you think it would be better to go out and get involved with a stranger? do yo think you are confusing this friendship feeling with a romantic feeling?
think about what your particular fears are and then work out in your mind if falling for him is really such a bad thing to do. if you are so close is it not possible that you can talk this out with him, just as talk. if he is as intuitive to you as you say he may have already picked up on your feelings
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reader, kryssy +, writes (7 March 2011):
 well you never know, unless you make yourself known. and if you figure out that he does have feelings for you, then you've wasted all this time worrying. so, express yourself and hope for the best.
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