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writes:i have a boyfriend for 6months before evrything was okwe dont see each other very often but we text each other on sms and sometimes he will call me, but since a while now he has been willing that i send him naked pictures of myself and my private part ,we have not slept together yet. I do send him some pictures but not totally naked ones,i told him that i will not send him those kind of pictures but when we do sleep together he will get to see for himself but lately he has stoped sending me sms like before he tells me that he miss me a lot but he is ignoring my text. am angry that when i try to call him or text him he will not answer ignoring me..before he told me that he loves me and that i should trust him but now he just will not talk to me like before..please help am i at fault?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): I think that guy is kinda disrespected person.how comes he asks you nude pictures of your.what if you try to dump on him and see he reacts.hope i helped...xxx!
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reader, funkymonkey123  +, writes (7 March 2011):
this guy sounds like a bit of a sleeze bag. i suggest that you break up with him- he obviously just wants you for sex and since you have not had sex with him he wants to get his kicks in another way.
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reader, FluffyPie  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 He obviously wants to spread the pictures all over the internet, porn sites etc. If you're not ok with this, break up with him. Besides, ignoring a woman's texts and being angry over such childish things like sending some picutres is very immature and disrespectful. I wonder where all the good men are hidden, since a lot of girls get the jerk type...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Your not at fault!If it doesnt feel right then most likely it isnt right, for you. I would also have concerns about a person who sulks and/or plays mind games when they dont get what they want......if thats his request and reaction within 6 months I think you should reassess is this a person who deserves me in there life? I would take every step forward without them and dont look back
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Well. Why don't you just tell him in plain English that if he doesn't stop asking you for nude photos, you will DUMP HIM?!Get straight to the point. If you can't do that, it might be a good idea to talk to someone who will tell him that on your behalf.Sounds like this guy needs a kick in the arse!I hope things work out okay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): i would rather your personality than my ex,who used to send them to guys online. stick to your morals.
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (7 March 2011):
 How did you tell him that you are not going to send any pictures ?You have the option of breaking up with him.Other option is to work this out. He might feel that since you are dating for like 6 months he deserves at least picture, because he is not seeing you often, you didn't sleep together. He's probably mad about it because he's doesnt have your trust with even you sending some pictures.I mean he's a guy and he thinks about sex a lot. And he is not getting anything like that from this relationship so he's mad. I get that you don't want to send this pictures. So try phone sex or skype. I mean unless he really really loves you he is going to be unhappy and mad about this lack of sex in your relationship.He might feel that you don't trust him so that's why he's angry.He will not tell you that he's mad. He going to do this childish things like not picking up or texting.
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reader, welsh +, writes (7 March 2011):
No. You are not at fault. Whatever it is, do not share naked pictures of yourself. Partially or otherwise. These may just find their way to the internet. Stick to what you believe in and dump this guy.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (7 March 2011):
 hi
no you are not at fault at all! - he is! do not compromise on your morals, especially for someone who cannot even respect your wishes enough to carry on being nice to you when he is not getting what he wants (naked photos)
you always have to be careful about sending any photos of yourself, with the technology we have nowadays; if you send them to someone untrustworthy and disprespectul (as he sounds) he could post these on the internet if you don't do exactly as he wants in the future or if you break up, and once they are on the internet, you will NEVER be able to get them removed, they could end up anywhere!!
so please please please DON'T DO THIS
xx
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