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30-35,
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writes:I lied to my this boy I'm seeing that I'm pregnant with his baby after I took a test saying it was negative. When I told him he was upset and first thing he said was I'm booking the abortion.I've told him its already booked. I told him I was pregnant because I wanted to see his reactionAm I an evil person? I feel so sick in the head telling him that, I honestly feel horrible, I can't stop feeling guilt. I've probably lost him now, the first boy I really like :(
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reader, raiders  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 This was not very nice but when you told him you were pregnant to get a reaction from him I am wondering if you got the reation you were expecting.
Obviously you two are to young to be having sex and by having sex you are putting yourself at risk of pregnancy.
If you were to get pregnant by this boy you already know his answer to terminate your pregnancy, but what if you choice to keep the baby. This boy will be skipping town in a heart beat getting away from any responsiblty and you are going to be the one stuck with a baby at a young age having to take care of a baby all by yourself.
I really recommend you to hold off on the sex.
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reader, Milo117 +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Your in a realtonship with this boy why not just ask him how would ypu feel if i got pregnant you should be able to do that if your able to have sex with him im your age and im telling you if my gf told me that and i found out it was a lie i would be furious. You have to come clean and apoligise to him from the heart other wise you should feel guilty.
Dont toy with men about that
Espeshaly boys are age
NOT ON!
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reader, Milo117 +, writes (7 March 2011):
Your in a realtonship with this boy why not just ask him how would ypu feel if i got pregnant you should be able to do that if your able to have sex with him im your age and im telling you if my gf told me that and i found out it was a lie i would be furious. You have to come clean and apoligise to him from the heart other wise you should feel guilty.
Dont toy with men about that
Espeshaly boys are age
NOT ON!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 March 2011):
You're not evil. But you are in no way ready for any kind of relationship. You have played such a dangerous game with a teenage boy who, like the majority teenage boys, simply isn't ready for that kind of commitment. You yourself are not ready for this kind of commitment either.
End it with him, and really focus on wising up to the world and men. We're not stupid, and we won't tolerate behaviour like this. And God help you if some men think they're not ready, because in this world it's very easy for a man to walk away.
You're not evil, but you need to come clean and own up. You also need to leave him, and focus on your own life until you are ready for a relationship.
Learn from this - don't play games. More and more women are playing games or testing men in some way now, and men are becoming increasingly tired of it (just look at this site for a few examples).
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