A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have never had complaints/worries about my size or performance in the past, but lately I've been feeling very insecure with my new lady.Sex seems great from my perspective, but the last week she called me small after sex. This comment came a couple of days after she told me about a previous sex partner that was "too big". The guy was a friend she would hook up with just for sex over the course of 4 years. She changed her story later, saying he was longer but not as thick, and she enjoys sex with me more. I am just under 6" long, and 5.75" girth...Is she right that I'm too small? I feel like I shouldn't be worried about these things, but it's taken over every waking moment lately.
View related questions:
insecure Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): you are completely normal.
While she is rude and ignorant. She is showing very poor judgement. Very lacking in grace.
Just before you ditch her arrange for a large plastic dildo to be delivered to her, nicely wrapped of course, to arrive the morning after you dumped her.
I don't this woman is right for you, she is plastic too.
A
female
reader, raiders  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 I think your fine and she has some major ass kissing to do.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Well, she does lack sensitivity. It does feel great when a man can 'fill' your vagina well, however overall, it doesn't matter. You're a nice average size. She's just being a silly girl and comparing out loud...she just needs to keep it to herself and enjoy what she has.
...............................
A
female
reader, Mjfbla +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Im with caringguy this girl doesnt seem worth the time. you have no reason to be insecure. trust me, if she has a problem then its her problem nothing to do with you.
...............................
A
female
reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 I think what she said was very hurtful and very inconsiderate because once said it isn't something that you can take back. She owes you a big apology for that and should be trying her best to make it up to you to make you feel more secure.
Your penis is the average size for a man and there's nothing wrong with that. The woman's G-Spot is situated just inside the vagina so length really has nothing to do with it. Just be sure you know how to use it ;)
...............................
A
male
reader, dirtball +, writes (7 March 2011):
 What CG said. There are plenty of women out there who think you're the perfect size.
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 March 2011):
You're average sized, like most men. So you don't have anything really to worry about - other than this woman is a bit of a moron really. To be honest, I just wouldn't bother with a girl like that. Pretty useless really, to hurt you like that.
...............................
|
