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writes:my bofriend and i have been together for the past 7 1/2 months we broke about 4 months now and is not living together anymore but we continue to have sex, i love him so much and want him back more than anything else i know his heart desire is to get a child so i lied and told him i am pregant but i might abort it...now he's saying that if i abort it he doesn't want anything to do with me ever again but the thing is that i'm not even pregnant now i dont know what to do....yea i know it was stupid but this is real life situation and sometimes love meake us do stupid things so please same me the cursing and just tell me how best i can go about this Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 You have no choice but to tell him the truth. If you lie again and say something like you misacarried then he'll think you had an abortion. Just fess up and hope he'll forgive you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 March 2011):
 The best thing you can do is be honest. How many lies are you going to tell him? Do you really want a false love? That's all you're going to get from a lie.
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reader, funkymonkey123  +, writes (7 March 2011):
the best thin to do is to be truthful with him. im not going to lie... he's probly going to get mad. but if you dont tell him the truth asap you'll dig yourself intp an even deeped hole
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Tell him you went to your doctors and the test came up negative. Then tell him a few days later that you got your period. It was either just a false alarm or the pregnancy "didn't take" very early in the process.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Pretend that you have had a miscarriage. You might even end up back together if u seem upset enough.
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