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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half, have an active, what I would think as happy sex life, and we are.. well were, serious.Over the past few weeks, he became quite antsy with me, very blunt, snappy, not his usual self. I didn't ask questions, I tried to put it a side but something wasn't right. On the day he was meant to see me, I call him asking what time he says hes not coming, I asked him whats wrong, he said nothing. He was practically shouting at me and then slammed the phone down. I tried calling again to talk but he didn't pick up so I went to his house to see him face to face and talk to him about it. When I got there I spoke very calmly asked him what had been up these past few weeks, what had happened? Can I help him? No. No. No. I ask him if its me, he doesn't know? I said he must know and then it all came flooding out.He feels because of the amount of sexual partners hes had is a little less than mine and feels like he needs to have sex with more people. He loves me, but he wants to 'get his number up'... Obviously I am devastated.He said he still wants to see me, be with me, do things with me, but he just wants this. Is this when it turns into an open relationship? I don't know what I'm even meant to do in this situation. I saw him today, he acted loving towards me, was kissing me, hugging me, but now I know that he wants this.. I'm not sure what to feel?If this continues as an open relationship, how am I meant to keep my jealously at bay? How am I meant to ignore the fact he is having sex with other women?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 March 2011):
Just get rid of him. Don't keep someone like this around. He has absolutely no respect, love of affection for you at all. All he wants is sex from as many women as possible. He is willing to put your sexual health at risk, and your happiness at risk because he's jealous of your partners.
This is precisely the kind of man women need to avoid. All he wants is to use you, and use other woman. There is no love, no care, no nothing. Just one man and his penis.
Ditch him, find a more secure man who won't act like such a loser. Fancy slamming a phone down on your girlfriend because you've not has as much sex. It's beyond stupid.
Make a promise to yourself - no more of life's losers!
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