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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and mybf have been together for 2 years now, we fight for months on end but we make up and things are good for a few days untill he get sketchy (by sketchy I mean secretive and sneaky) I've only just started to notice this the past few months.When we can't be together at the moment we talk on msn, or phone or skype (any kind of communcation you can think of), after a bit he'll say "brb i'ma shower" in which he'll be gone for at least an hour (there's no way in hell he is in the shower for an hour).There's also our sex life, up until about a few months ago we would have sex two times a day sometimes even three, also he would not keep his hands off me even if we were both content, he would also ask for sex even if he was content. Now we have sex once every 2 or 3 days in a month, or NONE at all for about 2-3 months, He doesn't touch me at all any more and the only time he does is when i insensate it(even then its only for a few mins). It just overall feels like he just wants to get it over with and that he just doesn't want me anymore.Is he cheating?Or am I over reacting?Before you say i should confront him, he'll deny it and say he loves me and does want me. But it doesn't feel like it.
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reader, smith1012  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 In my opinion, if this man isn't making you completely happy then leave him. I don't mean "if the relationship isn't perfect" I mean if you have concerns and he just brushes them off without making any effort to make you feel comfortable, then leave him. Even if he isn't doing anything "sketchy", he still doesn't care enough about your feelings to change anything he is doing so that you don't worry. If you are madly in love with him, and there is no way you will leave him, then think positive. Quit assuming he is doing something wrong. If you have no proof then there is a likely chance he isn't cheating on you. Instead of thinking he is "cheating" when he says he is taking a shower and it takes an hour, just think he took a shower, then decided to make some lunch and eat. If you want to be with him then you cannot assume everything he does is wrong, especially if you have never caught him cheating. And the sex thing... I know that has to be a shot to your self esteem, but maybe he just hasn't been in the mood lately. Plus if you were giving it up to him say 3 times a day, he may have very well gotten bored with your sex life. Try changing things up a bit, find out a fantasy of his, and make it come true! Good luck!!
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