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writes:6 months ago in september, i created a fake facebook profile with a fake name and fake pictures of a girl. In september i met this guy and we started a relationship. Now he is very serious and wants me to visit him, we almost make 6 months, i need to get out of this situation ASAP!!
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Don't meet him!!
How do you know he is who he says he is? You might say "because it's been 6 months!!" But think about it: it's been 6 months, and he still doesn't know who YOU are.
This was a very very bad idea hun. In several areas. 1) If he is a real person, you lied to him and put his emotions in jeopardy. 2) If he is not, you put your own safety in jeopardy.
It is, indeed, time to tell him you are not the girl whose facebook he has been communicating with. It is also time to end the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Just stop contacting him and delete the stupid fake profile.simple as that .
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Time to tell the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): He may think you're crazy, but I think you need to be honest if you're considering meeting him. If you want to get out of the whole thing then tell him that you've met someone else and that you don't think things will work out between you now.
You also need to be very careful if you do end up meeting him as although you have misrepresented yourself, you also don't really know who he is. Have you spoken on the phone at all? You need to be very careful when meeting people you only know online irl.
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (7 March 2011):
Seriously, youve got yourself some trouble. It would be a pain for this guy to know you are a fake, why did you do it?
Anyway, I suggest you tell him the truth, hope for the best, and understand if he feels bad
good luck
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (7 March 2011):
 What on earth possessed you to invent a profile and put it on facebook in the first place??
Can't say I'm a fan of facebook to begin with; I have an account but zero info. The account is to keep up with my cousin and her daughters & granddaughters......I have no other interest in tweet, twitter, or anything else, LOL.
Anyway, Strontiumdog's advice is gold.......hope you resolve your problem.....
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Oh boy....I'd love to now why you did that in the first place. But for now you have a choice to make. Either tell him the truth and hope he still likes the real you and can forgive you, or disappear out of his life as painlessly as you can.
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