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writes:Am i overreacting in thinking that my boyfreind's cheating on me? I think he's gone from looking at porn sites(now16 in all,no problem,we've watched some of them)to having sms txt and calls to his mobile phone.He's very careful not to leave his mobile around in my prescence and he's also being very careful with his activity on his pc.Unusual. He's been on 3 dating sites of which he's now left. When i've asked him about all this he denies it all and says i'm imagining it. He was willing to finish with me rather than let go the very things that are hurting me.He knows that i feel its secrets and lies and betrayal with what could be with a few women.We've had a few good months since we talked about this until now,its all started again. Valentines day he was verbally abusive about a gift i wanted to give him. Unusual.We've been through a lot indiviually even through our darkest days. We are 2 of a kind etc and i love this man so much. I've tried 4 a year to make things work and sort this out and once again I seem to be going through the same thing as before. Our relationship was as strong as any good strong marraige. Miss doubtful
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reader, missdoubtful +, writes (7 March 2011):
missdoubtful is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have some good advice about me thinking my boyfreiand may be cheating on me. There's something nagging away at me. He though i'd seen tx's he's receiving and made an excuse about them saying he's receiving these tx's but don't know who they're from and don't know who they think they're contacting. I did't see the tx's but i did say 1 wrong digit in a phone number and you could receive a txt off someone else, its happened to me some girl was txting her friend i txt back to let her know she txt the wrong person. She txt back saying sorry, i said its ok, don't worry. I was genuine when i said that then i realised my boyfreind was covering himself. I began to look back over the past 12 mnths and the changing behaivour,more cover ups,possibly. He wasn't interested in Valetines Day, i realised that after when we went for a meal, we did so beause i forced him into it, i just thought he was just being moody and grumpy.I asked someone i know te read whay i'm saying to you,he refused as he think's im looking too much into it.He's normally a good judge of character,a family member.HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Well it shows exactly just how much value he`s got on your relationship and is in search of something better via dating sites. It may be better ending it. He mustnt be able to help his behaviour.
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 If he wasn't up to no good he wouldn't need to hide these things from you now would he? So love him or not I think you have to do what is best for you. Since you already know he'd rather continue to hurt you then change his ways.
You deserve better. This man is no good for you.
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