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writes:I have been dating a man since October. He is interesting and kind, I can find no faults in him. We live 45 minutes apart, but it's not that much of a big deal. Lately I have only seen him once in 7 weeks, and it doesn't even bother me... Sometimes I even feel relieved when I get off the phone with him. He is wonderful, but for some reason it seems like I'm just not very attracted to him romantically anymore.. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mimzyluv +, writes (8 March 2011):
Mimzyluv is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really hope you are right GeeGee. He deserves someone better than me. He truly is wonderful. I just hope he won't hate me for trying to make the right choice. Thank you, for giving me the courage to do what needs to happen.
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reader, Mimzyluv +, writes (8 March 2011):
Mimzyluv is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really hope you are right GeeGee He deserves someone better than me. He truly is wonderful. I just hope he won't hate me for trying to make the right choice. Thank you, for giving me the courage to do what needs to happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there! Let him know as gently as you can that you don't feel you're working as a couple and move on. He will be free to move on too. I would tell him exactly what you've said on here, that you think he's great but the chemistry is off and that you don't see any point continuing the relationship. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. He may be very upset but he will heal. If he's upset be kind, but be firm. You have to let him go and get on with your own life and ultimately you will both be happier in the future - I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't find me attractive in this way and I'm sure he wouldn't want to be either. Good luck in the future, to both of you x
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Let him go as gently as you can. Someone else will love him and appreciate him for who he is.
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