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writes:I met the right guy at the wrong time :(.Last year I found the most amazing guy, of whom I could of quite easily stayed with my whole life, but I lost him cause I had baggage, and by baggage I mean my mind and body loves someone else, I couldnt shake these feelings of this other guy so I got depressed that I found the most amazing guy but couldn't commit to him. Now a year later I'm sat here wondering if I'm ever going to find someone like him again, or someone I could quite easily fall in love with again.
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reader, crosss129  +, writes (10 November 2011):
Words that I live my life by, and I apply them to the best of lifes situations and the worst of lifes situation...."EVERYTHING happens for a reason." There is a reason you couldnt be with mr. right and there is a reason you were involved with mr baggage at that time. Everything will work out, and hopefully, something good will come of what seems to be a missed connection. Have faith
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reader, yomama65 +, writes (6 March 2011):
 Hello there. I really do believe the saying that "timing is everything." This can be especially true when it comes to relationships. And, unfortunately, bad timing can lead to feelings of regret about what "could have been," but the truth is that you made a choice that you thought was best for you at the time and now you regret that choice. Based on what you have shared, it is difficult to determine whether this guy may have been "the one," but in my experience, if it was meant to be it would happen. And also, I do not think there is only one "true love" out there for each of us. I have loved and been loved by several men, and have grown, changed and improved (I hope) as a result of those relationships. I suggest that you give yourself some time and when you are ready, be open to meeting someone new. You may just find that the next guy is actually the one you are meant to be with! Best of luck to you!
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reader, TheFurFiles  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 The "right" guy is the right guy at the right time. Mr. "I could have stayed with you my whole life" obviously wasn't "right" enough to take you away from "Mr. Baggage". My advice, worry about yourself and getting your own life in order. Once you've done that, you will shine from the inside out and then the "right guy" will find you. Good luck,Fern (TheFurFiles)
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reader, please help me +, writes (6 March 2011):
 you cant change what has happend so stop thinking of what if , this wont help you all you need is to be who u r and you will find the right person for you what is ment to be will be and that person might be right infront of you :)
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