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writes:I never believed that long-distance relationships could work but i have somehow found myself in one. I met a man who hit me like a bolt of lightning and i knew i couldn't walk away. When we are together everything is wonderful but i'm finding our time apart increasingly hard. Living over 300 miles apart means that if we have any disagreements they usually occur over the phone. I never feel things are resolved until we next get together and i find these times very dificult. Its too early to talk about the option of moving etc. but i'm worried that the fact i'm struggling will ruin something really special. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle the periods of separation?
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Hello :)
Its always hard when the person you love the most is away from you the only thing you want to do is be with them.
I take it that you speak on the phone very often do you have a computer or perhaps even an iphone ? With things like that you can have video calls and perhaps things feel more realistic.
But even if you have video calls nothing will beat being with your partner, perhaps long term reltionships just arent for you and you should consider some sort of arrangement so your closer to eachother.
Hope it helps ;)
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