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writes: Hi, i'm 19 and gay and have been going out with a guy for about a month and we've gotten to the oral stages of sex, and it was all good the first time, but the since then i've been unable to orgasm (he has) and the other night neither of us did, we usually do this all late at night so i've put it down to being too tired, but im worried about it because i feel like i've lost my libido a bit in the last month, is there anyway i can prevent this from happening?
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (7 March 2011):
Have you tried doing it in the morning? I find that when I'm more relaxed (from sleep)... and not tired (from doing whatever during the day)... that I'm more horny.
So... try morning sex.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (6 March 2011):
cut out alcohol if it is involved
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (6 March 2011):
It could be down to tiredness but it could also be down to the fact you two are not sexually compatible.
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