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*heerwhore23
writes:So I’ve been talking to this guy... I like him a lot. But he lives about an hour and a half away. We talk everyday, he calls me his future girlfriend, and stuff like that..but lately I've been feeling like I can't just keep talking to him.. I want him to be my boyfriend. I told him that I couldn't keep doing this anymore..and he told me that if I lived where he did we would be dating. I thought that was the end of that because clearly I don't live where he does. But he still texts me everyday.. And ever since I told him that, he's been a lot more sensitive and nicer to me.. I mean he's always been, but now more than ever...but it's like he doesn’t get it!! I want him as my boyfriend or nothing at all... How do I tell him that??:/ I mean I don't want to lose him, but it's really killing me.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (6 March 2011):
 If Aunt Honesty's idea won't work for some reason then I think you need to explain to the boy that it's not that you don't like him, it's that you like him too much for a long distance relationship to work. Tell him it is just too painful for you to feel so close to him but never get to see him, and that you hope things will be different when you are both a little older but until then you need to let him go. Then tell him that if he cares for you at all he will respect your decision and stop all attempts to communicate with you. A clean break for both of you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 I guess he feels the same way about you but the distance is getting in the way for him. Talk to him and see if you could both work on it. Could it be possible that you both take it in turn to visit the other every weekend. If its possible then I dont see why the distance should be a problem. Its only an hour and a half is there a bus you could catch or even meet in a place in the middle. Talk to him and tell him you would really like if he was your boyfriend and sort out a plan that will enable you both to meet up in a regular basis. Goodluck.
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