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Would it be weird to add him on facebook?

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Question - (6 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

I need some advice about a guy. I went on holiday to Spain and stayed at a hotel. I noticed a good looking Spanish guy who worked at the restaurant as a waiter. There was alot of eye contact between us. I made it clear I liked him and he caught me looking at him. I noticed him looking in my direction and smiling slightly. I spoken to him briefly i.e. he served me drinks at the bar. I didn’t introduce myself to him. It would have been great if I could speak to him more but I couldn’t as he was constantly busy and serving other holidaymakers. Also I don’t think his manager would be pleased to see us talking as it may be unprofessional. I have two questions which are as follows: -

-My friend said when he was glancing in my direction and walked passed me. He was smirking to himself. Is that a good thing? Some guys may get big headed.

-Also the hotel I stayed at has its own facebook page. I’ve discovered he’s joined the same link. Would it be weird to add him on facebook? I was thinking of adding him. If I should add him, shall I give a reason for adding him? I don’t expect anything to happen.

Thanks

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A male reader, sebaslookingforward Argentina +, writes (7 March 2011):

add him and good luck!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011):

Well, I think this is really sweet, but to answer your question;

if he was smirking to himself, then maybe he was thinking about you, or got excited to see you, just too shy to show it.

And you should add him on facebook. Get to know each other more. You never know, he might like you, just needs a chance to show it. You could become close friends, or maybe even more, but you won't know unless you try.

You should always open the door when opportunity knocks! :D

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A female reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2011):

AlwaysHereToHelp! agony auntHello :)

Well as you mentioned about the eye contact and slight smiling, that is normally considered a good thing, so I reckon he was smirking in a good way.

And yes, add him on facebook. Just think, what's the worst that could happen? From what you have described it seems there was a bit of a connection there. You should just perhaps send him a message saying he served you in the resturant and perhaps pay him a small compliment. It could kick a whole conversation off ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011):

Hello :)

Well as you mentioned about the eye contact and slight smiling, that is normally considered a good thing, so I reckon he was smirking in a good way.

And yes, add him on facebook. Just think, what's the worst that could happen? From what you have described it seems there was a bit of a connection there. You should just perhaps send him a message saying he served you in the resturant and perhaps pay him a small compliment. It could kick a whole convorsation off ;)

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