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She likes me but has feelings for another guy too

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Question - (6 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, I met a girl on holiday a few months ago and I really like her. Yesterday I told her I liked her and she said she likes me too but the problem is she also said that she has been after another guy for 5 months and still has feelings for him. What do I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011):

Hello, thanks for your answers. It's really helped. She has now started meeting up with this guy a few times aswell as meeting up with me a few times. She said she stayed up very late last night with him playing games and drinking. I thoguht it was gonig well but i'm starting to think I should give up..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

Hello, thanks for your answers. It's really helped. She has now started meeting up with this guy a few times as well as meeting with me. She said she stayed up very late last night with him playing games and drinking. I thought it was going well but i'm starting to think I should give up on her.

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A female reader, please help me United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2011):

please help me agony auntyou need to sit down with her and tell her that you are there now you want to be with her but that you cant wait for her, tell her if the guy she likes hasnt noticed her for 5 months then its likely he never will, y risk a relatiionship that could work for one that might not even get the chance to start and if you feel that you could make her happy then show her :) hope it helps

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A female reader, StarryEyes101 United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2011):

StarryEyes101 agony auntIf she has been after him for 5 months then he is probably not interested. She shouldn't waste her time on him any more.

But there's nothing you can do to change that so, I'd say back off from her a bit. Don't ignore her.

But don't talk to her as much as you do and she'll realise (hopefully) that she misses talking to you and likes you. Let her make up her own mind.

I hope this helps

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