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writes:Friends please help me.i have a girl in my class. I like her very much. I used to talk to her daily. we just become friends. Problem is that our classmates used to say that we were in relationship. she is a bit shy and doesnt like this that someone is saying that we are in relationship. So she stopped talking to me during school time. I felt really hurt. So i decided to talk to her on her way back to home when i found her lonely. We talked some days during our way back to home. We have normal conversations about school and no special talks. But then a new problem took place as sometimes i used to catch her when i found her alone. her younger brother saw us togeather some times. He then at home says to her my name and asks 'who is he?' in front of his mother. So now she doesn't talk to me anymore and if i go to her to talk to her she only replies to the point. What should i do now? should I tell her that i like her or please suggest me some options. I wll be very greatfull for your help. i am suffering in my studies
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): Hey :) well you ovbiously like this girl very much and I reckon that she likes you back just as much ;) but you see the problem with shy girls is you can never really tell what they're thinking as they don't often open up to people.When all those people in your class were saying that you and her were in a reltionship it must have really made here confidence go down and that is probably why she decided to keep away from you because she didn't want everyone talking about you and her.She might have stopped talking to you because perhaps her mother has told her too because she thought you and her daughter were getting a bit too close (parents can be a bit overprotective sometimes :/).I think she likes you but because she is rather shy you need to be very careful about telling her you love her because if you slip up you might lose her :/ First you need to gain her trust again. Just take her to one side and tell her that you want to start walking home with her again as you think she's a really nice girl and you want to stay friends. If she says no, don't give up, keep trying. Eventually your efforts will pay off and she will say yes. But try not to let anyone else know. And if she says yes then when you walk home try dropping small hints saying things like you think she's pretty and make her laugh and stuff :)When you think that she trusts you enough, then tell her you like her and you want to be in a reltionship. The trick is with shy girls don't scare them away and be very gentle and subtle to them. Don't tell her straight away you love her. You have to gain her trust first.Hope this helps :)
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