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anonymous
writes: If my boyfriend is not sleeping with anyone else, does it automatically mean he's not using me? I know he doesn’t see other girls, but I still feel as if he's using me. Is it common for guys to only use one girl at a time? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): I am the OP I mean I think he's using me for sex.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (6 March 2011):
Yes it is very common, just because he is not with other girls doesnt mean that he is not using you. Go with your gut instinct and if it is telling you he is using you then end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): guys forget how to maintain a relationship, its the same as starting a new one, getting to know each other and investing time energy and effort. most guys give up once they have you. he may be comfortable and expect that he has nothing left to prove to you. guys use women often, it happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): I would say listen to your intuition. If you feel like he's using you, something isn't right between you. Also, yes a guy can use one girl at a time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): I'm not sure what you mean by using you? Why do you feel this way?
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