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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My exboyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. He was there for me every single time. Budt suddenly we broke up because we were fighting . after we broke up we stoped talking for three months and suddenly he called me and wanted to see me. we had a good time and when he went back to his city he didn't call at all. I called him and told him how selfish he was and why he didn't call. He was mad. when i asked him why he came back to me he said he missed me somuch and he loved me somuch. but after a while he to;d me that we can't be together because we were fighting alot and i said ok. he never told me anything. i miss him now like crazy. what should i do please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): People get into relationships to be happy. But if the relationship is leading to trauma, it's always better to break up.If you really think that you want to get back to him, tell him that you love him. Talk out about all the differences you had until now and finish it. Make an effort to not blame or fight with him. Firstly, believe that he loves you and cares for you. It might help both of you to see things in a better perspective. All the best!! :)
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reader, hmz +, writes (6 March 2011):
A couple fight because they don't understand each other. Or there should be some willingness to understand. Talk to him and ask him if he wants to make things clear, of his expectations and your expectations. Be true to what you expect and ask him to be true as well. Then decide if you both wish to continue.
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