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writes:HiMe and my bf are together for the past 2 years. For past few months our communication has become very sparse, if i don't initiate the conversation, we don't communicate for days.2 days back he called me and he was upset over something and asked him why he was upset, told me he will tell me later and then out of blue disconnected the call and switched off his mobile. I called him yesterday, he took the call and i asked what was wrong, he again disconnected the call.Today when i called him, he never picked up the call. I am not even sure what was wrong and whether he is breaking up with me. He has already broken up with me twice and got back after sometime. I am really scared now. Please help me, i really do love him a lot. Reply to this Question
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (6 March 2011):
It sounds like he is trying to tell you something but when it gets to the crunch can't go through with it.
I can't say what it is, but like you, I suspect he's trying to end it again.
I would prepare yourself for single life.
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reader, yomama65 +, writes (6 March 2011):
 Wow! I know just how you feel and it really blows. If he won't communicate his feelings now, and it sounds like this isn't the first time this has happened, then its very unlikely this will change! And to not even know why he's upset just makes it worse! However, the worst thing you can do right now is to keep trying to contact him. He knows how to reach you and he will contact you when and if he is ready. In my experience these "noncommunicators" do NOT like to be contacted. And his behavior is letting you know this. In the meantime, I would give some serious thought as to whether this behavior is something you can live with. If it isn't, you might want to let him know this if he calls you, and let him know that if it continues, you will end the relationship. No communication is a deal breaker for me. In the meantime, as hard as this is, just keep busy, live your life and try to stay busy. You deserve to know what's going on, but this guy may choose to never tell you. Best of luck!
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