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Why would an ex text me out of the blue asking for sex? Is he confused?

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Question - (6 March 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2011)
A male United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

Why would an ex text me out of the blue asking for sex, and saying she hasn’t had sex with anyone since me? I know this is a lie and so does she. She cheated for the last years of a long relationship. Is she desperate, as her last boyfriend dumped her? I believe she is constantly chasing him. Is she confused?

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (7 March 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntShe sounds confused and manipulative. I suggest you change your number and/or avoid her.

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A female reader, StarryEyes101 United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2011):

StarryEyes101 agony auntMaybe both. Desperate, confused, upset.. The list probably goes on. I think you should avoid her. If she cheated for the last YEARS of a long relationship, if you guys started to get serious again. What's gonna stop her from doing it again?

Hope this helps =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011):

Probably more to do with making use of you to handle the situation and ease the pain. I would say no.

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A female reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2011):

AlwaysHereToHelp! agony auntHello :)

Hmmm this sounds strange. do you reckon its some sort of joke with her friends or something just to see how you will react ?

Or perhaps she was drunk or she could be desperate , but if she cheated on you for the last few years of your relotinship i wouldnt just meet up with her and have sex if i was you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011):

I doubt she's confused, but she may have been drunk, horny, finger happy with her phone and decided to give you a booty call.

Given what you've said about her, she doesn't sound like she's the text was an effort to reestablish the relationship, rather it sounds like the momentary desire of someone with poor impulse control.

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