A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i'm a 19 yr old female. i think im in love with my gay best friend (male). what to do?
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reader, jojothemadmonkey +, writes (9 March 2011):
What to do?
Sweetheart there is nothing you CAN do. Unless he has given you some indication he is bisexual (has he?) you are barking up the wrong tree. His sexuality is part of him, just as much as yours is of you. You may experiment at various times in your life, but your heart and head will always guide you back to where you feel most comfortable, or were you 'fit-in'.
If you find this impossible to live with you need to cool off the friendship. If you can live with the pain of unrequited love then carry on. But you won't change him, he is who jhe is.
Sorry.
:-(
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