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Is he just settling for me?

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Question - (3 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

When I asked my bf why he liked me, the first thing he said was that he knew that I cared a lot about him and that I thought about him a lot.

Is this normal? I feel like he's only with me now because he's settling and because he just wants someone and anyone to be there for him, not necessarily that he actually likes me for me....

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (3 April 2011):

Danielepew agony auntMaybe he is just not too good with words, or not the expressive type. Men and women can indeed "settle" for someone, but that doesn't mean he did it with you.

Perhaps you don't appreciate yourself enough and feel that no one will want you for you?

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