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writes:Does knowing your partner just came off her period put you off going down on her?Im in a LDR and went to see my bf a couple weeks ago. When I arrived I happened to get my period on the second day (I have irregular periods due to a medical condition so I cant work out when my next comes) well it lasted like 4 days so in those 4 days there was plenty kissing and cuddling and I gave him oral ALOT but when I came off my period we were pretty quick in jumping right into sex and then everyday was like well (we got rather sexual) and he had no problem putting his fingers in me, many times but he only once went down on me and that was nearer to the end of the 2 weeks...and it was because he was getting really into it.So I was wondering do you think the fact I was on my period kinda put him off going down on me? or do you think maybe its me or what?I must say that it was my first time meeting him in person (we've known each other just over 3 years and going out for 2 but i needed to meet him to see how we get along in real before going further as things might not work out but they do more than perfectly) and also that with his last gf (who was the only other girl hes had sex with) he went down on her regularly or at least im pretty sure he did bcoz she gave him oral and he would return the favor (maybe i should ask to see if that meant oral to or just fingers nonetheless though i took it as oral)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): no i spent 2 weeks with him....quite actually 24/7 as well.I just meant that my periods lasted 4 days.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 I can't know, because this is something you must ask your boyfriend. If he was put off by it then that's up to him, there's no rule that guys in general get put off by it. Perhaps he thought you wouldn't like it as you just had your period, or perhaps he didn't want to risk getting "left overs" in his mouth. If it was safe for him to go down on you then you should have told him so, and talked to him about why he didn't go down on you.
As for whether or not "return the favour" to him meant oral sex you need to ask him. There is no way we can know, although normally you'd think it would mean oral sex. But who knows what he's thinking?
A little piece of advice on the LDR though. I was also in one, and when me and him met up (usually about 2-3 weeks at a time) it was great, but once I got to spend more than 3 weeks with him the truth about how we interacted truly came forth. Things he didn't do when we were just meeting for a few weeks, or things he didn't do because of the setting. always visiting each other. When it came to actually living together and being together every day for a longer period of time things took a turn for the nasty.
I'm just saying, you spent 4 days with him. That is not enough to judge whether or not you actually get by in real life. You get along well for 4 days, sure, but what happens if you are to actually meet him regularly during a year? You don't know yet, so just be careful to jump into things.
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