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I am 13, gay, and I'm having anal and oral sex with my boyfriend. Is this wrong?

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Question - (3 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2011)
A age 26-29, * writes:

I know people say don't have sex until your married,but im 13 and me and my boyfriend are planning to spend our lives together, so I gave him oral sex. We both enjoyed it so I let him perform anal sex on me. It was painful but the best night of my life. We have been dating for 9 months and have sex almost every week. Is it wrong to be having sex at such a young age? I hope not because I love pleasuring him and I love when he pleasures me.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (3 April 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt In Canada , age of consent was raised to 16 years in 2008. Age of consent for anal sex though is at 18.

Wait, it gets better - having sex with anybody under 14 is a criminal offence that carries very heavy sentences :

I don't remember exactly, but something around 15 years in jail ,if the offender is over 18. If he is under... you'll both end up in juvenile.

So yes, it's wrong - at least ,in Canada they very strongly feel so.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

wow i like the fact your so open about being gay at such a young age and even have a boyfriend, thats awesome =)

However Im a strong believer that you shouldnt have sex until at least 16 but even then it still seems pretty young...idk my own personal opinion (my bf was 14 when he started having sex, ok i hate thinking about that and puts me in a mood ergh) anyways...

theres nothing wrong with it overall...not many people wait until their married, and im pretty sure every year kids lose their virginity at a younger age (where i live i was the odd one out cuz i waited until i was 17 with a guy i really fell in love with and everyone else had been active for the past 3-4 years already) so i guess what im saying is its normal...dont worry about it and if your happy thats what matters right.

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