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*ovely jojo
writes:Hey GuysOk iv been with my boyfriend for four years and ready to take the next step ie move in together but he's not ready and it really hurts me.. He's a great boyfriend but im worried that if he doesnt want to move in together at four years where is our realationship heading?.. He hasn't given me a reason to not be ready so im second guessing our relationship and if he is really serious about us..Im 24 and feel that we should be starting a life together but all he is interested in his sports and I feel like i come second to everything else..My whole life routine revolves around him fitting me in..Any advise??Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 Do you really want to move in with him? You just stated that you feel you come second to everything. If this relationship is going to go anywhere, I would not worry about moving in together, I would worry about how he sees you. Are you a treasured aspect of his life or are you just the aspect he does not truly care for but he needs? He is not ready for anything more I'm afraid. Consider ending it or at least taking a break so he can make up his mind about what he really wants from this relationship.I hope that helps.
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