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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My friend has been texting the guy i have liked for a few months for my benefit saying that one of his friends likes him. which is obvious me (i only found out a few weeks ago )anyway she never told him my name just that one friend of his really likes him. She was going on about how shes really nice will do anything for anyone and then he come out with S (which is my name) with a lol on the end. my friend replied who is she and he replied u know who she is and left it as that. But now ive seen him a few times since this has all came out and he hasnt said anything (he thinks i dont know that he found out as my friend apparently made him say he wouldnt tell this person if he found out )But im kinda worried that he actually hasnt said anything and and he doenst even like me one bit which deep down i was hoping he would a little .I speak to him still and things still the same between us.But im worried that where he put lol on the end he thinks im one big joke. (Ive also seen all the texts my mate and him have sent to each other) The only reason y she told me as he guessed my name
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): OP you really should have stated your real age when you posted here. It's much easier to give teenagers like you advice when we know that you're a teenager from the start.Now if I'm wrong and you are actually in your 30's then I apologize but then what is up with all these schoolgirl games?Seriously OP, read your question again. It's like reading the thoughts of a giddy teenager. "ooh he's so dreamy but I'm just too shy to ask him out so I'll get my friend to text him instead" You're getting your friend to hint to a guy that you like him? Now even if it wasn't planned can you really blame him laughing at it? I would. I would laugh my ass off that a woman in her 30's still has to get her friends to chat up guys for her. I don't mean to be insulting but that's exactly what it looks like.He knows you like him now, you can either make a move and ask him out/get to know him properly or you can look like a weirdo that lets guys know she likes them through her friends but just sits back and watches, never doing anything about it.
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reader, MrExperiance +, writes (3 April 2011):
if he doesnt like you back then oh well, just stop trying dont make a big fuss, hes either too embarrassed to admit he likes you cus hes a shiztbag, or he doesnt find u attractive.
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reader, nothing but the truth +, writes (3 April 2011):
Stop being such a baby and just txt him and ask him out for the love of god!!!Whats the worst that can happen? he says No and you know where you stand rather than spending your days worrying if he does or doesn't.This isnt 1950, women can ask men out!
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