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Am I weird or is this a normal fetish?

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Question - (3 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *leepylover29 writes:

Hi all, I'm very new here and have always considered myself somewhat of a "freak" because of this.

Ever since I was young when I had an operation and was put to sleep, I find myself aroused when I see pictures of myself asleep and even now I get so drunk that I pass out just so that my fiance can mess with me.

Is this normal? I know the fetish itself is called somnophilia.

Also my fiance likes feet.. but she only has a thing for mine and I have to be asleep and limp for her to get off with them :S

Is this Considered normal and is there any advice for me to perhaps sleep deeper for her to enjoy me more?

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A male reader, sleepylover29 United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2011):

sleepylover29 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks, I think the reason she likes me deeper asleep is it puts her off if I stir lol.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (3 April 2011):

chigirl agony auntDo you care if it is normal or not? Does it matter even? Whatever floats your boat, what does it matter if others think it is normal or not.

I'd say no, it's not "normal" in the way that many people have this fetish. But then again a fetish isn't "normal", it is something special and unique. Yours is normal enough to have a name, so in that sense, yes it is normal. It's a normal abnormality I guess.

Why can't you just be asleep and have your fiancee enjoy your feet? If you wake up while she's at it can't you just pretend to still be asleep? Aren't 8 hours of sleep every night enough for her? I'm not sure if I have any advice on how to sleep deeper and I don't understand why she'd need for you to sleep deeper than a regular deep sleep. I would advice you though to NOT start using sleeping medication as that is unnecessary and can be dangerous for your health. Your finacee will just have to get by with what she gets. You should not put your health at risk for her fetish.

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