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Guys, do you only go down on a woman you are really into?

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Question - (3 April 2011) 12 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Guys, do you only go down on a woman youre really into-- your gf or someone you care about/love? or do you do it just for fun or for reciprocity?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011):

I go down on ANY woman who asks me to! She want's it, I do it. I would never skip an opportunity!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011):

I have to agree with Illithid. It really depends on the guys preference. I've been with a number of guys (please don't call me slut). Some will do it to any girls. Some only do it per request. Some try to avoid it. Just because he does it, it doesn't mean he loves you more than the other guy who doesn't. It's totally a preference thing.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

I do it in order to have good sex with almost every woman. With exception of:

1. If I do not find her hygienic.

2. If she does not drink enough liquids (which usually leads to an unpleasant odor).

3. If she is not shaven in a way that allows it comfortably.

Also, there is a matter of attraction, and being in the right mood, etc.

I found it is a good way to assure mutual pleasure, especially when having a new partner.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011):

I only do it if I really want to. So far, I've only really wanted to when I've been in a relationship for awhile and I really like the woman a lot and I really want her to feel as good as possible. But, I don't have a "rule" about only doing it certain circumstances, so it could be different in the future.

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A male reader, YoshQ United States +, writes (4 April 2011):

I do it for any girl I'm havin fun with, as long as she's clean, because I love to see her gettin off.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

I like to go down on my partner whenever he wants me to. I am in a gay relationship but i agree with Illithid.

I won't do it to just any one, but if I love my man and we are in a committed relationship I will do any thing I can to please him and make him know I care.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

as a guy? hell yes, thats privileged right there. Why? Cause im very passionate with it and I dont just do that to any woman. She must be special to me in many ways.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (3 April 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt No, it does not depends from their love for the girl, but from their love for this specific sexual act.

Men who love cunnilingus will do it on everything that breathes. Men who are less enthusiastic will do it occasionally, to reciprocate or if requested or to vary the sexual routine etc.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (3 April 2011):

Illithid agony auntThere's a whole range, from those guys that won't ever go down on a woman, to those that only do when the feel they have to, to those that do when asked, to those that do without being asked but only with girls they like, to those that will every chance they get. Personally, I don't do casual sex regardless, including casual oral, but whenever I'm with a girl that I'm dating and serious about I LOVE to eat her. It is fun for me to make our time fun for her, reciprocated or not.

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A female reader, SweetSmoochy United States +, writes (3 April 2011):

SweetSmoochy agony auntThis is going to be different for every single guy you talk to or date. You're going to have to play it by ear. My boyfriend does it because he likes to nad because he likes the intimacy, as well as pleasuring me. Some guys will do it for other reasons, or not at all. It's not really a good measure of how much a guy likes you

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A male reader, sobes4444 United States +, writes (3 April 2011):

sobes4444 agony auntWell, umm. We do it only if we think it's "hot" and we really want to, or if you girls ask in a way.

But some of us think it's gross and smells/tastes like an "armpit".

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

Absolutely not! If I'm getting busy with a girl it's part of my routine.

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