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30-35,
*tephanie-k
writes:so about a month ago i started speaking to this girl at work who is a lesbian and i know she gets extremely attached really easily but i never though it would be to me.so the weekend after i met her, we went out to the club together and ended up kissing and texting constantly and we went to the club together every weekend for about a month.because i was straight, i never thought anything of it but then i realised i liked her. this was when she decided to kiss another girl right in front of me because she was confused about what i thought.but i don't see how i was that confusing because i'd meet her almost every day, hold her hand, kiss her, cuddle her, stay at hers, go to the cinema alone with her, text her constantly and send like 20 kisses in texts, and even hint that i really liked her.but when i told her i liked her, her jaw dropped to the floor and she seemed even more confused than before. but i was gutted by this point because she'd gone with someone else and they swapped numbers.i ended up staying at hers again that night and we nearly had sex, but she was too scared in case she messed with my head. but i'd rather be confused about how i felt having sex with a girl than actually being emotionally attached to her!so now we're all weird, and despite the fact that she was stuck to me for a month and only me, she's decided that she wants to enjoy the single life and get with randoms. but the night before all of this, she was telling me she wished i was gay or bi because of how much she liked me!and i just don't understand what happened to make it so bad.if anyone can tell what's wrong please tell me?
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reader, clare12 +, writes (4 April 2011):
hi my name is clare, it may sound od to you that i am a pre op,male to female answering your question.but there is nothing wrong in your fellings for another woman,as long as the feelings are mutial, as after my op i will also be a lesbian. so go with your hearts. and best wishes to you both.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (3 April 2011):
 Been gay and falling for a straight girl can be one of the most frustrating and confusing things possible, so i do see where she is coming from in that sense.On the other hand if you have made it clear,or atleast sort of clear, what you want then i dont see why she is as confused as she is.If you really like this girl and think there might be a chance then the best thing for you to do is text her and ask her if you two can sit down and chat. Then just tell her how you feel about her and how it made you feel when she kissed someone else. This way atleast you will find out where you stand and you can either move on sorting things out with her or move on with your life.Good luck
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