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Why is it whenever I get into a relationship, I feel trapped and want to get out?

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Question - (3 April 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *liceinunderland writes:

Dear Cupids,

I'm 17, a good student, I have experience of a real relationship and have been out with about four guys in the last three years.

My problem is, two years ago my step-brother was a bit nasty to me. At the time I was 14, and unsure of myself, I was insecure as I had problems with my mom and step-dad, and at home with my step-mom, I've had help to get over all of the problems and I haven't seen my step-brother since.

Since then all the relationships I've had have been very, very short lived. I get into the relationship, but I feel trapped in it and feel I have no control over my life, as though my freedom is gone.

The thing is no-one seems to understand this. Why do I feel this way?

I want to be able to have a boyfriend. Not FWB's.

I don't know if it's related to my past but does anyone have any advice for me???

Thanks,

Take care

Xxx

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