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writes:i am a 19 year old female. i am a heavy girl and i have never had a boyfriend or even my first kiss. I am horrible on the computer. I have been searching the web for men seeking very fat woman but can not find any chat rooms for men seeking the fat girl. i can only find woman finding fat men but mast of those men dont want a fat girl. does anyone know were i can find a site or chat romm. please let me know.kat.
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reader, VioletSparkle  +, writes (7 April 2011):
a friend of mine from high school had that fetish :-) and now he is happily married with a beautiful and very large lady.
On second thoughts, before trying the links I send, look for something more specific for young people, try googling "young big beautiful" or teenage big beautiful dating - something like that
good luck
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reader, VioletSparkle +, writes (7 April 2011):
this seems a bit more refined than Feedies
http://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/index.cfm
http://bigandbeautifulsingles.com/
http://www.largeandlovely.com/
actually I think it's a very good idea! just make sure you really follow all safety rules (no meeting except in public places, no giving your personal details) because you are young and there is a lot of weird people out there.
This sounds good, you are even learning to use the computer :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 First of all, let's see what "fat girl " means . At your age so many girls see themselves like "fat " then it comes out thay are maybe 10 or 12 pounds overweight, yeah big deal, like it's gonna ruin your life,lol.If instead you are obese , regardless of boyfriends, you must consult your doctor and a nutritionist and start a program to lose at least part of the weight.That's for your health, not for beauty. If you go dragging around 50 extra pounds for the next 20 years , when you'll be 39 you'll have the joints of a 70 years old woman, you may develop heart problems, diabetes, and have a lot of other complications. That's about health , not beauty.There are sites for BBW lovers everywhere, but I would not advise you to check them, for two reasons.- you risk to be just a sexual fantasy or a fetish, they guy will like you precisely because you are fat... and not because you are you- you CAN find, on line and also in real life, a bf who is Ok with your weight, ...but the problem is that YOU are not OK with it. You'd let him get away with murder, have the last word on anything, accept any kind of poor treatment, .... because deep down you'd be thinking : well, what can I expect, I am fat. I am lucky that he "forgives" for being fat so I have to put up with anything.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 April 2011):
 Actually, there are a lot of men who get really turned on by BBW women. They're pejoratively called "chubby chasers"...or more extreme, Feeders. Look up Feedies, or Foodies, online.
But as people have mentioned before, be really really careful and cautious about who you meet on the internet. Take your time, do research on who they are what they say about themselve, and do not rush to meet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): yes i love heavier women
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reader, Orbiter  +, writes (3 April 2011):
To be honest I wouldn't go on a chat room that specifically concentrates on big women at first if I were you. I'm sure that there are some genuine people on them but it raises the chance you'll find someone with a fetish who will only be interested in sex.If you really can't or don't have the confidence to go out and meet people in person (yes there are men out there who aren't bothered by weight), then it's probably best to go on a normal dating site first. Most give you the option to state your height, weight etc so anyone who messages you will be interested and ok with whatever you weigh.You will still have to be careful though, don't give out any personal details and if you want to meet up with someone, make sure it's in a public place during the day. Also tell someone you trust when/where and who you're meeting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): Why do you need a website? Honestly, I am a firm believer that there is someone out there for everyone. You just need to keep looking. And if you really don't feel comfortable meeting people in person, then yes, search online, but I would suggest going on a dating site like eharmony or something, instead of specifically seeking out males who want "fat girls". If you look for those guys, even if you find one, you'll always just be a fantasy or fetish to him. Do you want that? I don't know you, but I'm sure you're above that. Also, I'm sure you have many wonderful things about you, so you shouldn't have to have your body be the center of your life. One day you'll find a guy who love you for you, and not your body or appearance. Look for him. Good luck. :]
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (3 April 2011):
 I don't know of any chat-rooms, but you are really going to want to be careful about the online dating thing. Don't get hurt or worse!Just give it time maybe? I bet there's someone you didn't even know of thinking about you and wishing you noticed them.
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