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writes:My ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend it hurts a wee bit as she told me that one night she had a cry because she missed me but a part me is happy because hopefully now i can move on and stop getting mixed signals from her.I guess my question is that will the mix signals stop? Also is this normal for ex to tell them the miss them when they are in a relationship or is it just head games?Small Background- dated for 3 years been about 8 months since the break up and she broke it off.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 Mixed signals will continue for as long as you let them continue.
My opinion is that, if she wanted you, she could break up with the new guy just as she broke up with you. And then she could easily go back to you, from what I see. But she doesn't do that. Why?
If you pay attention to her mixed signals, she might come up with soemthing like "Wow, man, why did you read so much into what I was saying? Didn't I break up with you?".
Either you tell her to stop, or you ask her to get serious about it. As in "I keep having the feeling that you're sort of flirting with me. Am I right?" See what she says.
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