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anonymous
writes:hello I been with my boyfriend 6 months and we are ok most the time but at times i feel he dont want a lot of time with me. we stay at his twice a week as im there one night in the week and one at the weekend unless he visits family then we do a day visit together at his or go out instead. i know that i want to be with him and see him every day and i want us to live together but he dont yet. he wants us to take it slow and keep it to twice a week and not rush things. he told his mum about me and said i will meet the family in time and maybe even june when he goes away with them i maybe able to go to. i was meant to see him today as he went to his mums yesterday and stays there a couple of nights every two weeks as shes living in different city so we were meeting today. i went on at him cause he made it sound as if he wasnt really up for meeting today and wanted a day to himself, i went on about how he dont sound happy to want to see me today and now he is saying back off and give him space, we meet monday instead. i see him tomorrow now but my fault for going on and pushing him but i feel down at times when he doesnt seem excited about seeing me sometimes and other times he does. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): you've only been together for 6 months... that would be quite soon for some people to move in as it's quite a big step. You should talk to him about how you feel
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