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writes:Me and my ex have been broken up for about three weeks now. It really sucks. We broke up because it was long distance and she told me she thinks she has feelings for this other guy. Now on facebook I see pics of her and that guy at a party and then a concert. How the hell do I deal with that? And like how could she seriously do that to me? After two years and now she is hurting me more that ever. God I'm just so hurt.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 She probably didn't put up those pictures to deliberately hurt you. I think you should stop thinking that she should take care of you and be kind to you, and start taking care of yourself! Stop checking her facebook! You are the one who hurt yourself when you go there to see her pictures. You can block her from facebook, or even hide her statuses for a while until you are ready to see those types of updates and pictures. Until then, don't go on her facebook!! She is moving on with her life and can do whatever she pleases now, without it being cruel to you. She is just moving on. And you should avoid her and things that you know will hurt you! If you continue to go check her facebook, and you know what you will find there will hurt you, she is not the one responsible. It will be your own fault for checking her out on facebook, she's not rubbing it in your face, you have the option of NOT looking.
So do yourself a favour and delete her from facebook, or at least hide her updates so you don't have to deal with her, or anything about her, right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): Try and move on bro there are plenty more woman out there. You never said why u broke up but she has moved on. Start going out get ur confidence back go out with ur friends u will soon forget about her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): Hey buddy!Head up :)... LDRs can be very difficult and there is plenty on here on how most work out for the worst. Im in one right now and am only doing it cause the woman is wife material and quite possibly wants to move to my country down the road.I would cut off all connections with this woman even mutual friends. She has clearly moved on and you dont want that pain to continue. By cutting things off, you stop the bleeding. Your days will get better man, I assure you. Stay positive, you'll be alright!
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reader, Tyrax  +, writes (3 April 2011):
I know the feeling, mate. The easiest way to GET OVER it, would be if you ignored it. Don't get a new girlfriend before the power of love strikes you again - but hang out with girls. You are most likely holding yourself back because you don't believe it's all over, but unfortunately, I might have to tell you that it is. And don't believe what she told you, she broke up with you because she didn't like you anymore, and because she fell for another guy. I know it sounds tough, but you'll get on.
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