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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I hung out and went on a date with this guy who liked me, and discovered pretty quickly it wasn't going to work. Overall, it lasted for about a month, in which he thought we were dating. Apparently he really liked me, so it was awkward when I told him I wasn't feeling it.Anyway, my problem now is that during that time, I got to know his good friend/roommate. We talked a lot, and still do, about pretty much anything. The problem is that I have developed feelings for him. I mean, I really like him (and this is amazing, because I never like anyone). I don't know how he feels for me; I have always had problems reading people and they're feelings for me. What I'm wondering is where I go from here. Should I go for it or get over it? How do I know if he's okay with it or if he's actually interested? It's a weird situation. Any kind of suggestions or thoughts would be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (4 April 2011):
 It depends on their friendship. If his roommate treats him like a brother then he might feel he's betraying him by going after you. Some people say a person decides in 5 seconds whether you are girlfriend material. Some people think friendships can develop into romance. Here you really need real passion to override his concerns and worries about complications in the living situation.
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