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writes:hi i have been in a relationship with a very lovely woman for 3 years and got engaged however middle of last month she asked me if i could let her have a few days on her own.we lived together.so i agreed and she agreed that it would only be two days well that was middle of last month and i am still away from what i call my home.she constantly rings me,texts me and speaks to me on msn every day. i keep asking her when can i come home and her reply is i need to sort my head out. iam going home and spending weekends at home but leave sunday which is ripping me apart.while i have been away from home she has redecorated the whole flat which when i was there at the weekends i helped.she is now saying i will be coming home soon.so we dont lose furniture out of flat i pay half toward the cost of it we got it on hp.i need to know am i going back home or am i being used last few days she has been saying to me in conversations that she does love me and miss me but she needs to sort her head out which she says she is nearly there.any help and advice would be extremely grateful.many thanks
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reader, whatishappening +, writes (4 April 2011):
whatishappening is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi denise32 thanks for reply the flat is in her name and we did try to put it in both of our but because her ex husband left her in rent arrears we cant until its paid of.i told her last week that i am not letting it go any longer than two more weeks as i need to get sorted she replied by saying that that is ok and it will be sorted
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 The middle of last month? So you've been away for at least two weeks, right?If it's your home, I don't see why SHE doesn't find a place to stay while she "sorts her head out." Doesn't seem fair to demand that you not be there while she's saying on the one hand she's trying to work through your relationship in her own mind - incidentally, why aren't the two of you talking about your issues together and attempting to come up with a good solution? - and on the other to say to you "you'll be coming home soon."I just don't know about this - I don't like the sound of it - BUT that's just my personal opinion.
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