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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has intimate womens clothing that probably belongs to his ex?So a few days ago I went through a drawer of my boyfriend (he let me do this, he was there).It was a joke as he has a pantihose fetish so he let me have a look at them.However, when i started taking them out and folding them I came across some other things.First was a frilly pink undie and then a black lacy chemise and then a white bra.I acted like i was okay with it by just teasing him, saying ohh who’s is this? in a laughing way.He didn’t really answer my question though. He kept saying I don’t know and for the white bra he said it was his moms since it used to be her drawer. When I said he should return them (the chemise and the panties) he didn’t comment.There was another time when we were clearing out some things, I came across some underwear which he said was his moms, and apparently she wears really youthful underwear..I’m pretty sure that those pink panties aren’t his moms though as they seem quite new and and his mom hasn’t been back for a year.My boyfriend is 24 and I’m 17 (he’s my first). I usually overreact and am very emotional so I would like some better opinion than me (haha) about this and whether its normal. A few days ago I found a folder of pictures of his most recent ex (just her) labeled with her name on his computer, which I reasoned was normal, so i’m hoping that this is the same thing =]I also am very sure he isn’t wearing them (too small size) or were bought for masturbating with either
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): he has an underwear fetish. most likely he messes about with them as he masturbates. He probably does not associate them with anyone, but he may have stolen them from a previous gf or someone else. Some guys are into stilettos, others maybe leather, others feet, etc... It does not mean hes a freak or a transvestite, he just finds female underwear sexy. Or it could be that he likes wearing them, and that would make him a transvestite. Either way its not harmful, as long as he does not hurt anyone or cause distress by stealing or such like.HTH
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): Read between the lines. Those are his.
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