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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend split about a week ago and i was finding it really hard, and then he phoned me friday asking if i wanted him to come and see me. so he came down, we then had a chat and decided to give it another go, he then slept down friday and left saturday morning, but since then i havent heard of him. he said friday that he could come and see me sunday, so today i txted him asking if he was still coming up and what time but had nothing back. i understand if he was busy saturday and didnt have time to text me but as he said he was coming down today i would have like to hear of him. due to this iv been in all day waiting for him to text saying hes coming down. i dont know what to think, is he having second thoughts about us, or is he with someone else? i dont understand why he is ignoring me as iv phoned twice and had no answer and text 3 time and nothing back should i just wait till he contacts me and then ask him why, or should i just text him asking why he is ignoring me? or should i just let it go as i dont want to case anymore arguments as we just go back together ?
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 You've called and texted, the guy knows you want to talk to him. It's up to him to reply. I'd give it about 3 more days, if you still haven't heard from him then you can text him something along the lines of "I guess you have changed your mind about wanting to be with me. I really hoped we would work out this time. If you don't want this relationship anymore, I have no choice but to move on. I'll miss you." That will tell him pretty much everything he needs to know. You can't spend forever waiting for someone who doesn't know if they really want to be with you.
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