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writes:I am really curious about this because it makes me wonder what kind of guys these are or whether most guys do this and we're naive to notice.Basically when i go out on nights or just shopping during the day i'll see guys look at me even when they are with their girlfriend, and it's not just a average 'look' they give, it is that look when you like what you see. And on nights i meet guys who tell me their seeing someone but they are interested who else there is or it is nothing seriouss or something along those line so i back off because i feel bad for the girl they are seeing. Some my guy friends say stuff like if their girlfriend isn't there how will she know, and they have a guy code about how what happens stays between them.Anyways, the other day i saw a young man when i was out during the day, he smiled so i smiled back and their was instant attraction but then i saw his girlfriend or wife come up to him i was like oh never mind and again backed away. Yet he still kept looking and smiling at me then he ditched her to come find me. I'm just suprised that guys do this when they have a girlfriend or even worse with them!?These are just a few, i don't attract all unavailable guys! haha... It just makes me think whether these guys i meet are actually single or when i have a boyfriend whether he will do these things!? Reply to this Question
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reader, Philips  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Maybe you just live in a loose cultural region, which kind of encourage these sort of behaviour. Not all guys do this, coz i don't and i know lots of my friends who don't. Their is about 55% of guys who would cheat if they get an opportunity to do it. Maybe you are just surrounded by the wrong half. Their are nice guys out their, you just need to find them.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Attached men are just that attached... NOT DEAD.
I look at attractive people. I smile at them... and make a connection... I'm also open and honest about the fact that I am in a relationship...
My BF also admires pretty women and even will point them out to me when we are out and about... (we live in different states so I know he does it when I'm there or not).... BUT the key is that he is taken and he makes that clear....
looking and flirting is not cheating in my book...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): Yes, guys admire and appreciate the opposite sex when they are attached. This does not mean they want to start something with you or have any interest in you though so yes, your boyfriend will do the same thing but I wouldn't make too much of it.
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