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How can I get these other guys off my mind?

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Question - (20 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *eniorfreshy14 writes:

so...i mean this is kinda hard to explain so try to follow? basically what happened was:

My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months and 14 days when we broke up last October. We broke up because I caught feelings for another guy. I left my current boyfriend for this first guy and he ended up playing me 3 times between October and January.

Then after the first guy there was the second guy who was the senior which I've previously asked about. that lasted about a month, between November and December.

Then there was another guy who I was a thing with, but used me as a one night stand, so I left.

In the end I got back together with my boyfriend and we've together for almost 3 more months(same guy I was with for almost 10 months). We've been happy but every once and a while one of these guys will text me or talk to me and my current boyfriend freaks out. What am i suppose to do? He says I need to delete their numbers, but he also thinks that I am not over them. What are some ways I can get them off my mind?

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A female reader, seniorfreshy14 United States +, writes (22 April 2011):

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i get the whole deleting them thing, but i mean we fight all the time over stupid things. its starting to wear down on me and our whole relationship. i deleted all of them, but still don't see the change in our relationship.

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