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writes:Just saying, Im Gay first. Okay here is my problem, I'm dating this really really great guy and I really like him, but i dont love him. Its been about a month and things are getting really serious. About 2 days ago after 4 weeks from talking to my Ex he comes up to me and he tells me that he still loves me and he wants me and needs me and he regrets ever leaving me, I have also been talking to says that he still loves me and was crying to her about missing me and he has been going insane without me. I do still have really really strong feelings for him and its making me cry everyday, i have no where else to turn. I really need help to decide who to be with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): Someone once told me an ex is there as an example of who we should stay away from in the future! Dont go there thats all ill say. This person didnt realise how wonderful you were when they had you so why leave them back into your life now just when things are going good for you again?
How will you feel if he leaves again? You'll have given up this great new guy for what? I always believed that in order to fall in love with somebody new you have to give them a chance.. And you are not giving this new guy a chance while still talking to an ex! Best of luck with your decision.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Lucky786 summed up my feelings on this brilliantly. I personally believe that our exes should stay in our past. When things don't work out, it's for a reason, and while it's natural to miss them and still desire them, it doesn't mean another go at a relationship will work. The majority of the time it just fails again for the same reasons it did the first time. This begins a cycle of making up and breaking up that needs to be broken by one of you.
Assess the things Lucky786 suggested and you should have a better grasp of who you should be with. Best of luck.
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Your relationship with your ex ended for a reason. Think about that reason and then think whether the reason for your break-up is still an unresolved issue. If it is, then really you shouldn't go back. Sometimes love just isn't a good enough reason to get back with someone. If it resolved then you need to make your mind up quick because you're being unfair on the guy you are dating now.
I sincerely wish you all the luck in the world.
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