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writes: HI, This could be a long one. I known this guy for years, but we lost touch for a couple of years. He kept all my photo's and emails I sent him. WE got chatting a while ago and I realised that I still liked him. I told him I liked him and that I understood if he decided that was a problem, apparently it isn't. Now I always see him online and we chat nearly every day and he is being very attentive, giving me pet names and has even said that it's easy to be so open when it's with the right person. I have been hurt in the past and I don't want to get my hopes up, but I really thinks he likes me. He even asks about my Mum and send his best wishes to her. He is even making plans for when we get to see each other, which because of the distance between us won't be for a while. He even talks to me online when his friends are there visiting me. I think he really likes me, but I don't want to find out it was just my wishful thinking, I'd just like to know what other people think. Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, theaboo +, writes (21 April 2011):
It's hard when you're far away from each other.. a lot of your "relationship" plays out in your mind when you aren't dating in person, so it's hard to guage his sincerity. If he's really into you, he'll make the trip sooner rather than later. You probably honestly won't know if there's something real there until you see him in person again anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks theaboo, he responded positively when I told him I liked him. I appreciate you taking the time to repond to my question
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reader, theaboo +, writes (20 April 2011):
Don't get completely carried away, but if he says he likes you, believe him. He wouldn't ask about your Mom if he wasn't trying to kiss your ass a little! What do you mean "I told him I liked him and that I understood if he decided that was a problem, apparently it isn't."... did he actually say he likes you, or did he just respond positively when you said you liked him?
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