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writes:ive been dating someone for 2 years. we see each other all summer and when he is home for holidays, etc. (im in high school, he is in college) we work together in the summers and get along great. we have the same morals and values and we love each other, but we have absolutely no committment to each other.(mutual) he has tried dating others and so have i but we just don't like dating anyone else. i have dates to all the proms, homecomings, banquets and i am happy but don't want to see anyone but him. im going to graduate next december and we will see each other more, but he drives me crazy saying stuff like, "you'll find soneone else, or "you'll probably just date _____" is this insecurity? or someone being non-committal?? neither one of us thinks its a good idea to be exclusive. we are too far away from each other and im still in high school... help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok....looks like it's time for me to move on. blah...but, to thomas1214...we aren't having sex.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Live your life for you.
do not pick a school near him just to be near him
be friends.
there is not much else you can do.
have fun when you are together...
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 I don't think he's interested in a committal relationship with you. Its hard but open yourself and time to other people around you - he seems to be hinting you to do that already. You'll find someone genuinely interested in you.
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reader, thomas1214 +, writes (20 April 2011):
im gonna guess he's in this mainly for the sex.. no offence
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