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anonymous
writes:is it wrong for me to fall for my best friend? i mean maybe we are too deep in to the so called friend zone, but in reality she is everything i look for in a girl and she makes me happy as a friend. im thinking about just manning up and telling her how i really feel because right now she means the world to me. how should i do it and is it worth risking my friendship for this?
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reader, psycho in love  +, writes (20 April 2011):
hi, if you feel like you want to make your friendship go further then tell her, but dont just dump it all on her, you have to try and ease her into knowing, like you could ask her what kinds of people she likes and who she likes at the moment.
just try not to just come straight out with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): It sounds like you're one of those people who is looking for the same qualities in a mate that you look for in a friend. I can relate to that.
How do you know that she doesn't feel exactly the way you do? You'll never know unless you talk to her.
Friendship is built on trust and part of being a friend means telling each other everything. I say talk to her. Even if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, at least you'll have an answer. Just say something like, "Do you think we could ever be more than friends?"
Best of luck...
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