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writes:What the hell is wrong with me? I have been with the same guy for 3 years. He's really nice and buys me cool stuff when I need it. I can't complain much. The only thing that has always been a concern is that he can be cold towards me physically. It is something that I figured I would have to accept about him. Everything else is good. But.... I have been allowing this man at work to flirt with me. I haven't mentioned I have a BF. I keep telling myself"Stop it damnit! Advise to get over this before I get in trouble please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): Wow i was in near the exact same position except further on a bit! This new guy was in work and he was so funny and smiley and at the time my boyfriend was moany and constantly grumpy. Who couldn't but like the flirtyness in work? But one night when i came home i decided like u it had gone too far-when you leave someone get close to u like that u are on a downword spiral and who knows what might happen next.So i started to keep my distance from him. Unfortunetly for me that made him come after me more.. even with my boyfriend there he'd pass comments. However after a while he got himself a girlfriend and then rubs it in my face whenever the opportunity arises! Im glad i told him to push off and put my boyfriend first because let me tell you the flirt in the office is only ever gona be interested in being the flirt in the office..nothing more. So dont risk a great guy for a passing smoozing charmer..
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Tell him you have a BF and weren't serious. Problem solved unless he doesn't care. Then you'll end up cheating on your boyfriend. Well, maybe not, but that's the road you're on at the moment.
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