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30-35,
anonymous
writes:He never calls me pretty, he rarely wants sex, I don’t feel very desired, I used to love getting little messages every morning but they never happen anymore. We used to seem to turn each other on big time, but now he doesn’t seem pushed. I’m very sad about this sometimes. I try make more of an effort but there is no point. He never wants to bring me out these days, because he always seems to be broke. At the start it didn’t matter we both had much less money. I’ve only had shit relationships but I think I expected more. He insults me, he means it in jest but sometimes it hurts. About my job etc. which I hate enough already. He never rubs my back when its very sore but he did that for his ex… but I have an excuse to get my back rubbed. I love him so much and I tell him why and how much I love him every day. I don’t think he’s doing anything behind my back, and I wouldn’t. but sometimes I wonder if he’s really into me. I get compliments a lot and people trying it on with me, but he’s the only one I want and I think he has forgotten how he had to chase me and how happy we were for the first 3 or 4 months. When I bring it up he kind of brushes it off or says I have nothing to be worrying about, but I don’t really know how to take that, because at the end of the day I am a girl who’d like to make him feel as lucky as he made me feel.
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (20 April 2011):
 I read somewhere that men get away with what we women LET them get away with. He is treating you like dirt because you let him. Until such time that you wake up to the fact that you deserve better, you are going to keep on letting him treat you like dirt right up until the day he walks away and then you'll be posting questions on here like " I don't understand why he left me?"
You need to get rid of this guy sooner rather than later because he is no good for you at all and you know that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Ok tell me exactly WHY you love this man.
I think you are in love with the idea of being in love with someone who loves you.
things you tell me:
1. he never says i'm pretty (I would guess this is important to to you as it's the first thing you list)
2. he rarely wants sex
3. i don't feel wanted or desired
4. he does not contact me like i need him to (daily morning texts)
5. he insults me (even in jest this is cruel and mean and he really does mean it... behind every joke is a bit of truth)
6. he makes no effort to take out
7. i am NOT HAPPY
so tell me again what's so great about this relationship and why you stay???
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